Tips How To Approach Women

If there was a single thing I’d have to list and the biggest obstacle men face, then it would be the question of how to approach women.

How do you get the courage to approach her? Because it’s “highly likely” that she will reject you and make you feel like a loser.

What do you say to her?

How do you act around her?

Yeah I know, it’s terrifying. But it’s only terrifying because it’s something that you don’t understand or don’t know how to handle. As soon as you understand this difficult situation and how to handle it, it’s really not scary.

What I’ve done is I’ve asked 6 hot girls to get in front of a camera and give you their best tips on how to approach women so that you would stand a chance. Watch this video to see their advice (or scroll further down the page where I’ve written their advice).

Something I need you to understand is that women are terrible at giving dating advice.

Subconsciously they know what they want and need from a man and what attracts them, but when you ask them to tell you they will hardly ever give you useful instructions. Women just expect you as a man to know what you’re supposed to do to be attractive and how to make them feel good.

However, what these 6 girls say in the video is true, it’s just not very useful. That’s why I’ve created this post to explain to you exactly what they mean.

Tips How To Approach Women

Tip #1 – Be Confident But Not Arrogant

What this means is that a woman wants a man who is confident enough to go up and approach her and start a conversation, yet not a man who is arrogant. There is a fine line between being really confident and being arrogant.

If you are good-looking, then often your confidence is mistaken for arrogance because people still judge each other by appearance. If you’re good-looking and you are too sure of yourself, it can be intimidating for a woman and she can think that you are just some arrogant douche who is so confident because he looks hot.

Being confident means that if you are interested in her, you don’t hesitate, walk over to her, maintain eye-contact, start a conversation and not react when she tests you with some rude remark or request like “buy me a drink”.

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Tip #2 – Make Her Laugh & Don’t Be Too Into Her

Making her laugh is probably one of the biggest factors in creating attraction. When she laughs it allows her to relax around you, and feel comfortable. This means her body can relax too because she doesn’t constantly feel like she has to keep her guard up and protect herself from you.

You don’t need to memorize a book with jokes or pretend to be a comedian to make her laugh. The best way to make her laugh is to just be relaxed yourself and talk to her like you would talk to your best friend. Talk about what you like talking about, tell a story of something that happened to you, make a joke about someone near you who cannot dance or whatever.

By not being too into her, women mean that they don’t want a man to just kiss their ass from the moment they say the first word to them. In other words, don’t be needy,and don’t let women boss you around. Don’t qualify yourself to women telling them why you would be so good for them,rather get the woman to qualify herself to you. Why is she so special and why does she deserve your attention?

Tip #3 – Don’t Use Cheesy Pickup Lines, Be Real

Can you imagine that a line like “hey baby, did it hurt when you feel from heaven?” will actually make her like you?

If you are already a confident person then you can get away with using pickup lines, but only because you see it kind of as a joke and you’re not really counting on that one line to get her attracted to you.

While more sophisticated pickup lines and routines can help you attract a woman and even get her to come home with you, it’s just a matter of time before you run out of lines or routines to use and she will see who you really are.

And if you pretend to be someone else or pretend to be much cooler than you are and she sees it’s all fake, then bye bye attraction and bye bye woman.

Be real. If you want to joke with her and play games that’s okay as long as she understands you are joking or playing with her. If you’re playing games with her to manipulate her she will most likely pick up on it very fast and tell you to get lost.

Tip #4 – Just Be Yourself

This advice is true but only to a point. The reason why I say that is that it’s very good to be yourself when you approach women, but for many men “yourself” is not good enough or cool enough to attract her and keep her interested.

If you are nervous, fidgety, cannot keep eye-contact and have no idea how to hold a conversation, then being yourself is not going to cut it. But on the flip-side it does not mean that you need to lie and be someone who you are not.

What you need to do is improve yourself and all areas of your life and personality that are not as good as they can be. When you do this, then it is good to be yourself.

How do you improve yourself? Just read, read, read. There are countless self-help books and blogs out there, even this site is dedicated to helping you become confident and improving areas of your life that you’re not happy with.

So be yourself, but be your best self. Learn how to dress good, how to hold a conversation, how to dance, how to do some activities that people respect etc.

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Tip #5 – Smile

This is a big one.

Body language conveys something like 90% of communication. When you smile it conveys that you’re happy, that you have good energy, that you’re full of life, that you’re confident and not afraid to show it. Women love this (actually all people love people who smile) and are much more likely to want to get to know you.

The next time you’re out at a club or even at the supermarket, have a look around and see how many people actually smile? Often not very many, and the ones you do see smiling instantly seem fun.

Try and make it a habit to smile more often, especially when looking at women or when talking to them. It doesn’t mean that you should walk around with a huge grin on your face 24/7, that is also ridiculous. Just smile when you can, it also does wonders for your own mood.

Tip #6 – Know What You Want

The natural position of a man is to lead and make decisions. Women want men to lead, to be decisive, and they want men to know what they want in life.

If you as a man find a woman attractive and you want her, then that’s what you want. If you want beer, you take beer. If you want to go swimming, you go swimming.

It doesn’t really matter if a woman agrees with what you want or if she agrees with your decisions, but she wants you to be sure of what you want. Even if you make a wrong decision, it’s better than being indecisive.

Although it may seem similar, there is a difference between being confident and knowing what you want. You can have the one without the other or visa verse. The best is to be confident and to know what you want, because otherwise it will seem like your confidence is fake. People have the perception that confident people should always know what they want.

So next time you talk to a woman, be sure to know what you want. Don’t be indecisive and if you don’t like something then do not be afraid to tell her “no”. She will like it, and if she has any real objections she will let you know.

I hope you enjoyed these 6 tips how to approach women, and that I explained it a little bit better than the girls did in the video.