What is this place?
FlawlessConfidence.com is a site dedicated to all men and women struggling with shyness and low self-esteem. Our goal is to help you get rid of your shyness once and for all and become a person with the confidence to get everything you want in life – relationships, social life, successful business, freedom and the ability to achieve any goal you set for yourself.
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About The Author
Let’s make it short and sweet. My name’s Dirk but my friends call me Diggy. I was a shy guy for most of my life, but I learned how to become confident. And it completely turned my world around. Now I want to share my experience with you. That’s it.
Haha, just kidding. Here’s some more info.
I don’t pretend to be a confidence coach. I’m not going to say that I’m the world-class expert in self-confidence, shyness, social anxiety etc. (far from it). I’m simply a guy who once was very shy, but learned to become confident.
I’ve gained the confidence and skills to make friends anywhere in the world, approach women and get dates or girlfriends when I want, start and run my own businesses that allow me to travel around the world and live in total freedom.
I don’t have answers for all questions, but you can be sure that I experienced the same feelings as you in my many years of struggle and learning how to gain this confidence. And I want to save you all the time and trouble of discovering how to become confident through trial and error.
That what makes this site different – I want to talk to you like a friend, not like a “confidence coach” with a fake certificate. I want to teach you things that helped me become confident. Things that helped me change my life for better. Things that will change yours!
I want to make one thing clear – I’m just a regular guy who shares his experience. YOU are the person responsible for your life. I run FlawlessConfidence.com as a community and that’s why you’ll more often read “we” instead of “me”. Why is that so? Because I’m just one single piece of the puzzle – YOU are the rest.
The above pictures are by no way intended for me to show off or tell you how cool I am. I just want to show you what kind of a fun, interesting and happy life you can have when you are super confident. You can do anything you want to do, and even if you don’t succeed at first, you’ll be able to keep going until you do succeed.
I run FlawlessConfidence.com with Nathaniel who works mostly behind the scenes.
Nathaniel: Since I don’t enjoy being in the public spotlight, I stay in the shade and let Diggy shine (he’s good at it, isn’t he?). However, I believe that you should also know a few crucial bits about myself so there you go:
I was so shy in the past that today it feels painful just to think about it. My main problem was shyness around women. I couldn’t talk to them, because even thinking about talking to a girl (and it didn’t matter if she was hot or not, I was nervous around all of them) made me incredibly nervous (I just totally didn’t know what to do). Needless to say, I didn’t have a dating life when I was a teenager.
I had low self-esteem and low self-confidence. I was like this for (more or less) the first 18-19 years of my life. One day I stumbled upon some PUA stuff, started reading various books about this topic and finally after a long time (I had a problem with turning theory into real life) went out to approach strangers. I still remember how nervous I felt when I was simply approaching people to ask for the time. Yes, it was that bad.
It took me approximately 3 years (with breaks because I didn’t focus full-time on improving my confidence until the third year of my journey) to go from a guy who was afraid to say anything to a girl to a guy who regularly approaches (and later dates) hot girls in the street telling them in an upfront and straightforward way what he thinks.
I’m a firm believer of “direct approach”, that is saying honestly what you feel, without any stupid pick-up lines and similar stuff reserved for pussies. If you want touchy-feely bullshit, you won’t get it from me. And yes, I tend to swear a lot when I want to make a FUCKING point.
Unlike most “naturals”, because of my painful experiences, I can totally relate to your problems. And not only that – I’m also 100% sure that you too can overcome all of your problems and learn how to be confident.
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